Managing a Multi-Cat Household in India

A veterinary-reviewed guide to the realities of keeping multiple cats in Indian apartments — why cats are not naturally social animals, how to stack the odds in favour of a compatible pairing, the full introduction protocol, resource mathematics that prevent chronic inter-cat conflict, reading group dynamics accurately, recognising chronic stress in the subordinate cat before it becomes illness, and India-specific challenges that multi-cat households face.

Cats 10 min read Multi-Cat Home Management

The most important thing to understand about multi-cat households — before the introduction protocol, before the resource mathematics, before any specific management advice — is that domestic cats are not a social species in the way that dogs are. Dogs evolved in cooperative pack structures; their social bonding with both humans and other dogs is deeply wired. Cats evolved as solitary hunters whose territorial relationships with other cats were primarily competitive, not cooperative. The fact that cats can and do live harmoniously together is real — but it is not the default outcome of simply putting two cats in the same space. It is an outcome that depends on compatibility, on the quality of the introduction, on resource provision, and on the ongoing management of the shared environment.

This distinction matters because the most common reason multi-cat households develop serious inter-cat conflict is the expectation that cats will "figure it out" if given enough time. Sometimes they do. Often they reach an uneasy truce that looks like tolerance from a distance but is chronic low-level stress for the subordinate cat. Sometimes the relationship deteriorates progressively over months. The expectation that cohabitation will simply happen — the same way it happens for dogs — sets owners up to miss the management decisions that would have produced a genuinely good outcome.

This guide is designed to give you those decisions: the ones that matter before the second cat arrives, the ones that matter during the introduction, and the ongoing ones that determine whether a multi-cat household is a source of genuine feline companionship or a source of chronic welfare compromise for one or both animals.

Two cats allogrooming — mutual grooming of the head and face is one of the clearest indicators of a genuinely compatible cat pair, since it is a behaviour cats only direct at social partners they have accepted Allogrooming — mutual grooming between cats — is one of the most reliable indicators of genuine social compatibility. It is not something cats perform with animals they merely tolerate; it is reserved for actual social partners. A multi-cat household where allogrooming occurs is a household where the introduction succeeded.

Pairing Compatibility — Stacking the Odds Before the Second Cat Arrives

The single highest-impact multi-cat decision is made before the new cat arrives: choosing a cat that is likely to be compatible with the resident cat. This is not about predicting certainty — individual personality always matters more than category — but about understanding which pairings carry higher or lower baseline probability of successful integration, based on what we know about feline social preferences.

✅ Highest Probability — Kitten Added to Adult Resident

A kitten under 4 months introduced to an adult resident cat is the highest-probability compatible pairing for most households. The kitten is non-threatening — too small to be perceived as a territorial competitor — and the adult cat's response is typically either curiosity, mild irritation that resolves quickly, or a gentle adoption of a maternal/paternal role. The kitten learns appropriate social boundaries from the adult's corrections. The adult cat's established territory is not significantly challenged. Size parity at maturity is not yet present, which removes competitive anxiety. Most hissing and swatting from the resident adult toward a kitten is normal social communication, not sustained aggression. The kitten pair (two kittens introduced together from the same litter) is even more reliable — sibling kittens arrive with an established social bond.

✅ Good — Same Sex, Neutered, Similar Energy Level

Two neutered cats of similar age and energy level — whether same-sex or mixed — integrate significantly better than intact animals or those with widely mismatched activity profiles. Neutered males tend to have lower inter-male territorial aggression than intact males; spayed females have lower hormone-driven status competition. A young adult (1–3 years) added to an adult resident (2–6 years) with similar play and activity levels tends toward better outcomes than a high-energy young cat added to a senior cat whose tolerance for boisterous play has long since expired.

⚠️ Moderate — Adult-to-Adult Introduction

Adult cats introduced to each other have established personalities, established territorial expectations, and no prior relationship. Success depends heavily on individual temperament and the quality of the introduction protocol. An adult cat with a known history of living with other cats (a rescue that was previously in a multi-cat home, or a cat that was raised with siblings) is a better candidate than an adult that has been the only cat in a household for its entire life. The introduction protocol is more critical for adult-to-adult pairings than for kitten-to-adult — a rushed introduction between adults frequently produces a relationship that does not recover within the standard re-introduction timeline.

⚠️ Variable — Different Energy Levels

A young, high-energy cat (typically 6 months to 2 years) introduced to a senior cat (8 years and above) is a pairing that requires careful management. The young cat's continuous play solicitation, which the senior cat has neither the interest nor the physical comfort to engage with, produces a pattern of chronic harassment — the young cat pursuing the senior, the senior responding with defensive aggression or sustained avoidance. If you are committed to this pairing, providing abundant vertical separation so the senior cat has genuinely inaccessible high retreats, and ensuring the young cat receives all its play energy outlet through interactive play sessions with the owner (not through badgering the elder), makes it manageable.

🔶 Difficult — Intact Adults of Either Sex

Intact (unspayed/unneutered) adults bring hormone-driven territorial and reproductive competition to every interaction. Intact males are significantly more likely to engage in sustained territorial aggression toward other males than neutered males. Intact females in oestrus produce pheromones and behavioural patterns that are disruptive to multi-cat household stability. The management advice is simply: neuter/spay before introduction, not after. Attempting to manage a multi-cat household with intact animals is operating with one of the largest modifiable risk factors actively working against success.

🚫 Highest Risk — Prior Established Antagonism

A cat with a documented history of sustained, injurious aggression toward other cats — particularly one that has been re-homed for inter-cat aggression in a previous household — is a genuinely high-risk addition to any multi-cat household. This is not about punishment or dismissal; it is about honest risk assessment. Some cats have temperaments that are genuinely incompatible with cohabitation. Adding a known-aggressive cat to a household with a current cat is, in most cases, a decision that is more likely to produce chronic welfare compromise than successful integration, regardless of how carefully the introduction is managed. If you have adopted such a cat as the resident, be cautious about any addition.

A kitten and an adult cat during an early introduction — the kitten's small size and play behaviour typically do not register as a territorial threat to most adult cats The kitten-to-adult introduction is the highest-probability successful pairing — the kitten's size, social signals, and non-competitive posture typically prevent the territorial threat response that adult-to-adult introductions more often trigger.

The Introduction Protocol — Every Stage, Every Transition Condition

The introduction protocol described here is the standard staged approach validated by feline behaviour research and clinical practice. Every stage has a specific purpose and a specific transition condition — the thing that must be true before moving to the next stage. Skipping stages because the cats "seem fine" is the most common introduction failure mode. Seeming fine is not the criterion; the specific behavioural criterion for each stage is.

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    Prepare the new cat's room before arrival. A separate room — not a bathroom if avoidable, as the resident cat's scent may be strong there — with a litter box, food and water stations, hiding spots (a cardboard box on its side with a blanket), vertical space if possible, and something with the owner's scent. This is the new cat's entire world for the first phase. It should not be the resident cat's preferred room — set up in a room the resident cat uses less frequently. Place a Feliway Classic diffuser in this room 24 hours before the new cat arrives.

    Transition condition: room is fully set up before the new cat enters the home.
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    Phase 1 — No contact, no visual, scent separation only (days 1–7 minimum). The new cat lives in its room. The resident cat has the rest of the home. Neither cat can see or touch the other — they are aware only of scent under the door. Feed both cats at the door of the new cat's room simultaneously — on opposite sides — so proximity to the other cat's scent is always associated with the best food available. Swap bedding between the two spaces every 2–3 days so both cats have thorough exposure to the other's scent before any visual contact.

    Transition condition: both cats are eating normally and behaving calmly in their respective spaces. No sustained growling or refusing to eat near the door.
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    Phase 2 — Scent swap with space access (days 5–10). Allow the new cat brief supervised access to the main apartment while the resident cat is in the new cat's room. This allows each cat to investigate the other's full scent territory without pressure of direct encounter. Reverse after 20–30 minutes. This phase builds familiarity with the other cat's scent landscape — the whole apartment smells of the other cat before they have ever seen each other. This dramatically reduces the novelty-threat of first visual contact.

    Transition condition: both cats explore each other's spaces with normal investigation behaviour (sniffing, no prolonged stress signals).
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    Phase 3 — Visual contact through a barrier (days 7–14). A baby gate, a cracked door held by a doorstop, or a screen door provides visual contact with a physical barrier between cats. Feed both cats simultaneously near the barrier — high-value food during every visual session. Sessions of 10–15 minutes initially. Extend as cats remain relaxed. Any sustained staring, puffing, growling, or hissing ends the session — return to Phase 2 for 2–3 more days before retrying.

    Transition condition: both cats can eat near the barrier with the other cat visible, without sustained stress signals, for at least three consecutive sessions.
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    Phase 4 — Supervised shared access, short sessions (days 14–21+). Remove the barrier for short supervised periods — 15–30 minutes. Owner present and attentive. Do not force interaction; do not place cats together. Have a cardboard barrier available to separate if necessary. Engage both cats in parallel play with two separate wand toys to create positive associations with each other's presence. End sessions before either cat shows escalating stress signals. Separate for the remainder of the day.

    Transition condition: multiple sessions of calm coexistence — eating, resting, moving through shared space — without sustained avoidance or aggression from either cat.
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    Phase 5 — Unsupervised access and full integration (week 3 onwards). Extend shared time gradually until the cats have unsupervised access throughout the apartment. Keep the new cat's room available as a retreat option for at least the first month. Monitor for relationship patterns — see the stress indicators section. Do not remove the extra litter box, food station, or vertical resources that were added for the introduction — these are permanent features of a well-managed multi-cat household, not temporary additions.

    There is no endpoint at which management stops — resource provision and monitoring are ongoing.
Timeline reality check: The protocol above describes a minimum timeline. Some introductions proceed through all phases in 2–3 weeks; others take 6–8 weeks or more. A kitten-to-adult introduction in a household with abundant resources may proceed rapidly; an adult-to-adult introduction between two previously single cats may require the full timeline or longer. The criterion for each transition is the cats' behaviour, not the number of days elapsed. A day counter is a guide — the cats' responses are the actual schedule.
Two cats meeting through a baby gate during Phase 3 of introduction — visual contact with a physical barrier allows positive association building without the pressure of full contact Phase 3 visual introduction through a baby gate, with parallel feeding on both sides, is where the relationship foundation is built. The cat's brain associates seeing the other cat with receiving the best food — a positive association that persists into the full integration phase.

Resource Mathematics — The N+1 Rule and Why It Is Not Optional

The N+1 rule — one more of each key resource than the number of cats — is the most widely cited and most consistently violated principle in multi-cat household management. It is violated because it seems excessive to people who think of resources as functional items (a litter box is for toileting; one per cat is enough). The reason it is not optional is that in a multi-cat household, resources are also territorial markers, and access to them is a medium through which social hierarchy is exercised. The dominant cat does not need to physically fight the subordinate to exert control — blocking access to a litter box, sitting near the food bowl in a way that prevents the other cat from eating, or claiming the only high platform are all forms of resource-based social control that produce chronic stress in the subordinate without any visible fighting that the owner would notice.

Resource 2 Cats 3 Cats 4 Cats Placement Notes
Litter boxes 3 4 5 Different rooms or different ends of the same room. Never in a cluster — clustered boxes are perceived as one resource. One box per floor if the home is multi-storey.
Food stations 2 minimum 3 4 Out of visual line of each other — a cat that can see another cat eating at another bowl experiences competition pressure. At least in separate corners of the same room, ideally in different rooms.
Water sources 3 4 5 Multiple locations throughout the home. Away from food bowls and litter boxes. At least one fountain — moving water increases consumption in all cats and is particularly valuable in a multi-cat household where competition at a single bowl reduces individual intake.
High resting platforms 2+ high points 3+ high points 4+ high points At least one high point per cat that no other cat can simultaneously occupy. Height = security and social status — a subordinate cat with no claimable high point is in a chronically insecure territorial position.
Sleeping / resting spots 3+ 4+ 5+ Distributed throughout the home. Some cats sleep in contact; some prefer separate spaces. Providing more than needed means no cat has to compete for rest.
Scratching posts / pads 3+ 4+ 5+ At territory boundary points — main door, room transitions, near each cat's preferred resting area. Scratching is territorial marking; each cat needs sanctioned surfaces in its own territory area.
Litter box politics are the most common source of chronic inter-cat stress that owners don't see. A dominant cat that sits near — but not in — a litter box is blocking the subordinate cat from using it. The subordinate cat will either avoid the box (presenting as inappropriate elimination elsewhere) or hold elimination until the coast is clear (contributing to urinary tract disease risk). If you have a cat that has suddenly started eliminating outside the litter box in a multi-cat household, the first investigation is not medical — it is observational. Watch litter box access patterns across the whole day. You may find the problem is entirely social.
Multiple feeding stations and water sources placed in different rooms of an Indian apartment — resource distribution prevents the social control that a dominant cat exerts through resource access monopoly Separate feeding stations out of visual range of each other eliminate the single most common daily stress event in multi-cat households — the subordinate cat's experience of eating under observation from the dominant cat. Each cat eats in its own space, without competition.

Reading Group Dynamics — Compatible Coexistence vs Chronic Stress

Most multi-cat households occupy a range between genuine compatibility and active incompatibility. The owner's job is to assess accurately where on that range the household currently sits — because the signals of chronic stress in a subordinate cat are subtle, easy to miss, and directly connected to long-term health outcomes (FIC, obesity from reduced movement, and upper respiratory infection reactivation from chronic stress immunosuppression).

Signs of a genuinely compatible multi-cat household: Allogrooming (mutual grooming) between cats. Cats choosing to rest in physical contact or in close proximity without tension. Both cats using the full apartment freely — neither cat is restricted to a subset of rooms by the other's presence. Cats eating at similar times without one waiting. Mutual play between cats (not one cat chasing the other — actual reciprocal play). Both cats approaching the owner for attention without the other cat intervening.

Signs of a tolerable but not genuinely comfortable coexistence: Cats that occupy different rooms or different vertical levels and rarely share space. No allogrooming but no active aggression. One cat consistently defers when paths cross — giving way in hallways, waiting for the other to move. Eating at different times (one cat waits until the other has moved away from the food area). These cats may never have a conflict that the owner observes, but the relationship is characterised by avoidance, not acceptance.

Signs of chronic stress in the subordinate cat — the welfare problem that looks like personality:

Increased hiding and reduced visibility: A cat that has become difficult to find in its own home — spending the majority of its time under beds, in closets, or in low-traffic corners — is not "just shy." It is a cat whose sense of safety in its shared territory has reduced to the point where concealment is its primary strategy. This is a welfare signal, not a personality trait, especially if the behaviour is new or has progressively worsened.
Reduced eating and weight loss: A subordinate cat that cannot eat comfortably — because the dominant cat is nearby, because the feeding station is in an insecure location, or because the eating experience is associated with tension — will eat less and lose weight. Weight loss in a multi-cat household always warrants investigation into social feeding dynamics before assuming a medical cause. Separate feeding in separate rooms may be all that is required to restore normal intake.
Recurrent FIC episodes: Feline Idiopathic Cystitis is directly associated with chronic psychological stress. A cat in a multi-cat household with ongoing inter-cat tension that presents repeatedly with FIC, or whose FIC episodes correlate with household disruption (festivals, visitors, changes in the dominant cat's behaviour), is a cat whose urinary health is being affected by the household social dynamic. Managing the inter-cat relationship is part of managing the FIC.
Overgrooming and stress alopecia: Excessive self-grooming — producing visible hair loss, typically on the belly, flanks, or inner thighs — is a displacement behaviour that cats use to self-soothe under chronic stress. In a multi-cat household, new-onset overgrooming in a cat that did not previously exhibit it is a strong indicator of a social stress source. Rule out dermatological causes first, but keep the social environment firmly in the differential.
Vigilance posture at rest: A genuinely relaxed cat at rest is soft, loose, and inattentive — eyes half-closed, body slack, breathing slow. A chronically stressed subordinate cat at rest looks alert even when still — head up, eyes open and scanning, ears mobile, body not fully settled. This sustained low-level vigilance is physiologically costly and is associated with the chronic stress hormonal profile that drives FIC and immune suppression. It is easy to interpret as an "alert personality." It is actually anxiety.
Aggression redirected toward humans: A subordinate cat that cannot safely express its anxiety toward the dominant cat may redirect accumulated tension onto household members — appearing to "suddenly" become aggressive toward people it was previously comfortable with. This is not a change in the cat's temperament; it is an outlet for tension that has no safe direct target. Addressing the inter-cat dynamic typically resolves the human-directed aggression.

Feeding Management in a Multi-Cat Household

Feed in separate rooms, doors closed if needed. The most effective feeding management for a multi-cat household where one cat eats faster than the other, or where the dominant cat guards food, is simply closing a door. Each cat eats in its own room for the duration of the meal. The door opens after both have finished. This eliminates the most common daily feeding stressor with no training and no equipment investment. In a 2BHK Indian apartment, this means one cat eats in the bedroom and one in the kitchen, or one in the bathroom and one in the living room — location is irrelevant, separation is everything.
Timed feeding prevents resource-guarding at the bowl. Free-fed dry food left in a communal bowl creates the conditions for persistent resource-guarding — the dominant cat parks near the bowl and controls access by proximity. Timed meals (two or three times daily, placed simultaneously in separate locations, removed after 20 minutes) eliminate the guarding dynamic because there is no food available to guard between meals. They also make individual food intake monitoring possible — critical for detecting the early weight loss that chronic stress produces in the subordinate cat.
Weight monitor each cat individually. In a multi-cat household where communal feeding has been the norm, it can be months before anyone notices that the subordinate cat is losing weight — because the total amount of food consumed looks normal (the dominant cat is making up the deficit). Weigh each cat individually monthly, using a kitchen or postal scale. A 200–300 gram weight change in a month is significant in a cat that weighs 3–5kg. Monthly individual weights are the earliest and most reliable indicator of whether resource competition is affecting the subordinate cat's intake.

Vertical Territory Design for Multi-Cat Homes

In a multi-cat household, vertical space serves a specific social function beyond the enrichment value it provides in single-cat households. Height is a proxy for social security in cats — a cat with access to the highest point in the room has the clearest sight lines, the most defensible position, and in a multi-cat social context, the highest status. The dominant cat will claim the highest available point. The subordinate cat needs an alternative high point of its own — not a lower shelf from which it can still be surveyed and approached by the dominant cat, but a high point that is genuinely inaccessible from the dominant cat's claimed position.

In practical terms for a compact Indian apartment: a cat tree with platforms at multiple heights placed at one end of the living room, and wall-mounted shelves at similar heights at the other end, gives each cat a high point in their respective room section. The key is that no single cat can claim all the high points simultaneously — if the only high perch in the apartment is a single cat tree with one top platform, the dominant cat occupies it and the subordinate cat has no equivalent refuge. Two ceiling-height cat trees, or a cat tree plus wall-mounted shelves at the same height, gives each cat a viable position at elevation.

Two cats resting at different heights on a tall cat tree — access to separate high platforms allows each cat in a multi-cat household to maintain a secure elevated position without direct competition A cat tree with platforms at multiple heights allows both cats to occupy high territory simultaneously. The critical feature is that the positions are genuinely separate — not a single platform where only one cat can rest — so the subordinate cat always has access to elevation without needing to displace the dominant cat.

India-Specific Multi-Cat Challenges

Compact 2BHK apartments and territory density: The modal Indian cat household is a 2BHK apartment of 800–1,100 square feet. Adding a second cat to this space without deliberate territory design creates a high-density environment where the cats' territories overlap substantially and resource competition is structurally built-in. The solution is vertical expansion (cat trees, wall shelves), room-level separation for core resources (litter, food, sleeping spots), and deliberate micro-territory design within rooms — using furniture arrangement and cat furniture to create visual barriers and distinct zones within a room rather than relying on room count alone.
Post-vet non-recognition aggression in multi-cat homes: In a single-cat home, non-recognition aggression (see Aggression guide) creates a temporary management challenge. In a multi-cat home, it can reset the entire established social dynamic — particularly if the returning cat is the subordinate, whose status is already fragile, and who now also smells wrong. Always scent-equalise before returning any cat to the multi-cat home after a vet visit (cloth-to-chin transfer of the resident cats' facial pheromones onto the returning cat, or a small dab of vanilla extract on all cats' chins). Treat any attack that occurs before scent equalisation as a full re-introduction rather than assuming the prior relationship will simply resume.
Festival and high-visitor periods in joint family households: Multi-cat households in joint family contexts face periodic high-arousal events — Diwali, Navratri, family gatherings — that simultaneously elevate inter-cat tension (arousal lowers individual threshold for redirected and territorial aggression) and reduce the owner's capacity to monitor and intervene (the owner is occupied with guests). The practical management for festival periods: separate the cats into different rooms as a precaution during peak noise events, rather than waiting for a conflict to occur. Reunify after the acute arousal period — typically the next morning when noise has subsided. This brief preventive separation avoids the relationship reset that a serious festival-period fight can produce.
Street cats visible through windows — shared territory tension: In dense Indian apartment buildings, a stray cat on an adjacent balcony or rooftop may be visible to both resident cats simultaneously. This shared external threat can either temporarily unite the indoor cats (mutual interest in the external stimulus) or produce a redirected aggression dynamic where one resident cat, unable to act on the stray, attacks the other resident cat instead. Monitor window-period behaviour in multi-cat households — if one cat consistently attacks the other during or after stray cat sightings, frosted lower-panel window film on the relevant window reduces the triggering stimulus without eliminating all window access.
Domestic worker disruption in multi-cat homes: A daily domestic worker who is unfamiliar with or uncomfortable around cats may inadvertently disrupt the multi-cat social structure by chasing cats off furniture, closing doors that the cats use to regulate their own spacing, or vacuuming in a way that drives both cats into the same small retreat simultaneously — increasing proximity stress. Brief any domestic worker on: do not close the bedroom/bathroom doors that are habitually left open for cat movement; do not chase cats off furniture; do not enter the retreat room during the cleaning session. Five minutes of instruction prevents weeks of social disruption.
Rescue kittens in established multi-cat households: Indian rescuers who foster frequently end up retaining one or two kittens — adding a new cat to an established multi-cat home where the social structure is already in place. The introduction protocol applies as fully to the 3rd and 4th cat as to the 2nd, but with an additional layer of complexity: the established cats' social relationship with each other is disrupted by the new arrival, not just their individual relationship with the newcomer. Expect a period of social reshuffling between the existing cats as well — this is normal and typically resolves within 4–8 weeks of successful integration of the new cat, as the existing social structure re-equilibrates around the new member.

When Two Cats Is One Cat Too Many

The most important multi-cat management decision — and the one that is hardest to make — is recognising when a multi-cat household is not working for one or both cats and making the welfare decision that follows from that recognition. Not every pair of cats achieves compatibility. Some combinations of individual temperament, prior history, and environmental constraint produce a dynamic that cannot be resolved within the resources and space of a given household, regardless of how carefully the introduction was conducted and how diligently the ongoing management is applied.

The signals that a multi-cat arrangement has reached the point of genuine welfare compromise are:

If these patterns are present after an honest trial of at least 3–4 months of proper management, the welfare-honest options are: permanent separation within the apartment (if the space allows genuinely separate territories indefinitely), or rehoming one cat to a single-cat household where it can thrive. Rehoming is not failure. A cat that is chronically stressed in a multi-cat household and then rehomed into a single-cat home where it becomes relaxed, healthy, and socially engaged has had a better outcome than remaining in an incompatible arrangement out of the owner's reluctance to acknowledge the mismatch. Both the cat's welfare and the quality of the human-cat relationship are served by this decision when it is the right one.

A multi-cat household that is working looks like this: both cats move freely through the entire shared space; both eat at similar times without tension; both approach the owner for attention; neither cat spends a disproportionate fraction of its time hiding. It does not have to include allogrooming, physical contact, or any visible affection — two cats that coexist in parallel, each using the full space comfortably and without sustained stress, are in a genuinely functional household. This is the target: not a Hollywood cat friendship, but two animals that each have a good quality of life in the shared environment.

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⚕ Important Disclaimer
This content is provided for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional veterinary advice. A cat showing recurrent FIC episodes, unexplained weight loss, or stress alopecia in the context of a multi-cat household requires veterinary assessment to rule out underlying medical conditions before attributing signs entirely to social stress. Any serious inter-cat aggression producing injury should prompt consultation with a veterinarian or certified feline behaviour specialist.